Perfect Autumn Weather

Friday

Dear Elsie

Today was one of those perfect days. I finished the work week up to date and enjoyed sitting on the balcony having tea.

Enjoying the view and the weather…

At 5.30pm, Julian and I walked to the end of the beach and back.

Such a perfect evening.

Tomorrow, Mike and Holly have kindly paid for us to go on a boat trip across False Bay. Hoping the weather will be as good as today.

The other thing that happened today that has swept across our screens is news of the most horrendous earthquake in Myanmar. When there is a catastrophic disaster on this scale, it is just so difficult to get enough help on the ground to be effective. It is overwhelming to see how much damage there is. While we feel so helpless, God is not. He knows. He sees. He is not inactive during any events. Even though God may seem silent, He isย  never absent.

Deuteronomy 10:20
Fear the Lord your God and serve Him

It’s not about now – we are only passing through.

Keep the smile going.

God bless you.

In His Grip,

Gran xx ๐Ÿ™‚

 

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Perils of Egypt

Thursday

Dear Elsie

Today was a windy day. I spent 45 minutes walking with a little jogging in between. I am always impressed by the die-hard beach fans who, regardless of whether it’s windy or not, they gather at the beach and have their morning swim. As I was walking, I saw about a dozen of them getting their shot of cold water.ย  I am a fair-weather girl.ย  The wind is expected to drop tomorrow. I might get a swim in on Saturday.

I had a good day’s work & after it, Mike and I took a quick drive to the shop.ย  The new car is really a step up from the Ignis. It feels (and looks) much more robust.

This evening David and Anna came up for dinner. The sunset was quite lovely.

We had the TV on and one of the headlines was about a submarine that sank off Hurghada in Egypt. When we went via Egypt on one of our cruises, we went to Hurghada. I was really keen on the submarine excursion. Mike wasn’t & as we need 2 yesses, we did something else. This is the very reason risk averse Mike didn’t want this outing.

MSC uses a different company, but anything done in Egypt (to be honest) is risky! You just need to see how the buildings are built to know that corners are cut.

When we went to Hurghada we chose the beach excursion instead. I did a good amount of swimming and swam quite far. I’ll be more cautious about that next time. There was a shark attack there not long after we had been.

Our highlights of Egypt were the pyramids and cruising down the Nile, which we did over New Year in 2019. Cairo, the Museum and the Nile are all worth a visit. I wouldn’t mind seeing Alexandra one day as well, if a ship stops there.

Today I ticked of a big item on my to-do list. I got my travel laptop entirely functional for working on the ship. I will also have the IT guy on fast-dial in case it doesn’t work.

I’ve got a little bit of work to do and then I’m calling it a day.

Deuteronomy 8:17-18
You may say to yourself, โ€œMy power and the strength of my hands have produced this wealth for me.โ€ But remember the Lord your God, for it is He who gives you the ability to produce wealth

It is Him.

It’s not about now – we are only passing through.

Keep the smile going.

God bless you.

In His Grip,

Gran xx ๐Ÿ™‚

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We Bought a Fronx

Wednesday

Dear Elsie

Today was the day we said goodbye to the Ignis and drove away with a new van Niekerk family Fronx! Bye Ignis, we’ve enjoyed driving you, but it’s time to say goodbye.

Enter the FRONX! Who calls a car a Fronx?! We don’t know but Mike is loving it.

It’s bigger than the Ignis – it’s a SUV and a very grown up version of what we are used to. They said if the engine is anything to go by, it’s like a parrot – the car outlives you!ย  The name may not be popular but all the bells and whistles are.

After we bought it, we went to the airport to pick up David and Julian. David had spent a lovely long weekend + in Johannesburg. He was well looked after by the family and really enjoyed himself. Julian is now out for dinner with Holly and Mike. We had dinner with David and he has now returned home for an early night.

Three weeks until we, God willing, will be on the ship. It’s time to make a very long to-do list.

Psalm 68:19
Praise be to the Lord, to God our Saviour, who daily bears our burdens.

Day after day after day after day – He never misses one.

It’s not about now – we are only passing through.

Keep the smile going.

God bless you.

Inย  His Grip,

Gran xx ๐Ÿ™‚

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No Perfect Car

Tuesday

Dear Elsie

Today was the day Grandpa understood that there is no perfect car! We are cruising towards the end of this journey to a new vehicle. You wonder why he wants to part with his favourite car of all time!

The reason is the gearbox is an AMT – it has a reputation for becoming less reliable after 40000km. Right now the mileage is at 23000km and at the point that he will get the best possible trade-in price. He will miss this one when it goes.

While Mike has not left any stone unturned, I did an unconventional thing today and bought some stones of my own into the house. These rocks have been on our balcony and are sometimes used to anchor the washing rack so it doesn’t blow over. I bought them in to weigh them.

I spent a minute or two hauling the heavier one around the lounge. Every video I see on exercise to improve bone density involves weights and not the namby pamby little 2.5kg weights I have been using. They suggest very heavy ones. In fact one (unreasonable imo) article suggested to really be strong enough to improve longevity, I would need to be able to lift 3/4 of my weight, which would be a whopping 53kg, for one minute. That’s why I was curious to see how heavy these rocks are and how easy to lug around for a minute.ย  Completely unreasonable, I’d say, unless I can find a 53kg person to give a piggy back to – that may work.

Anyway, enough of that.

Deuteronomy 4 is rich with words of wisdom…like verse 29

If from there you seek the Lord your God, you will find Him if you look for Him with all your heart and with all your soul.

It’s not about now – we are only passing through.

Keep the smile going.

God bless you.

In His Grip,

Gran xx ๐Ÿ™‚

 

 

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Autumn Sunrise

Monday

Dear Elsie

Today was the day we had a super duper autumn sunrise. It is amazing how fast the sun rises and changes as it brings abundant light to the world. In autumn, with more clouds, as the sun rises it produces some spectacular displays – we were the happy recipients this morning.

This was 6.46am – we thought this was amazing…

13 minutes later 6.59am, this happened….

So spectacular.

We didn’t swim today.ย We had some other things on our plate so I got to work early. The north wind was blowing and that is known to cool the water considerably. Carol, one of my swimming friends said it was crampingly chilly. Amazing cloud formation.

I’m bracing myself for the next few days which should see us plunging into the colder water.ย  Whether I’ll swim for my regular 30 minutes or drop it to 20 remains to be seen.

Mike took Holly and Mike to the station. Ruth came and cleaned the Seaview Apartment so the new guests could be in early this afternoon. They are now settled.

The new car decision is still being made. Mike went to Kenilworth today to test drive the Fronx. It is a front runner, so who knows what will happen this week, but one thing that is for sure, Mike leaves no stone unturned when it comes to buying a new car. One day there may be a picture to post. If the car dealers have anything to do with it, they will want a sale before the end of the month – they have targets to achieve, as I do!

My family sometimes makes (a little) fun of me for my quirky YouTube preferences. For the longest season I watched ‘Say yes to the dress!’ Most recently I’m watching old seasons of the Australian “Farmer wants a wife”. I look to see which couple was successful and then follow them. It’s very tame and for some of them, I fast-forward through the episodes. The reason I mention it, is because one has just been uploaded, so I’m outa here!

Luke 6:31
Do to others as you would have them do to you.

It’s not about now – we are only passing through.

Keep the smile going.

God bless you.

In His Grip,

Gran xx ๐Ÿ™‚

 

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Embarrassing Moment 1

Sunday

Dear Elsie

Today was the day Grandpa and I revisited my 1st embarrassing moment. You will have many embarrassing moments in life and best is to laugh them off, but occasionally one or two will linger in their sting. The main reason for this is because them may cross a subtle line from mere embarrassment to a tinge of humiliation borne out of ignorance.

This embarrassing moment was 40 years ago. Yup, we were not yet married and someone had told us about a ‘fun’ run at Silvermine.ย  Mike was fit and liked to run, so I thought this would be ideal. I was a little fit & it was something we could do together. What we didn’t realise it was a ‘mountain fun run’.ย  The groups were divided up (so I was not with Mike) and we each were given maps.ย  When I looked at my map, I got the orientation all wrong and went the wrong way. The red arrows show where everyone else went. I went my own unique purple route.

By the time I figured I was on the wrong track, turned around and got back to the start, the organisers were about to send out a search party. It was very embarrassing! Today we went on a long walk in Silvermine Nature Reserve to find the path I took. First we went up to the old foresters hut.

This is theย  back of the hut. It had solar panels on the roof, but had been burnt out.

View of Elephant’s eye from the hut…

Mike pointing to the path that we wanted to get to…

We tried one track but soon discovered that was going to take us just about to Tokai forest, so back-tracked and went the more known route. This was on the path to the track of humiliation!

On the path – 40 years ago it was forested and there were towering trees on both sides. It was very quiet and solitary.

Now the views are wonderful.

Looking back at Elephant’s Eye…

The road is Ou Kaapse Weg, the fields below are on Steenberg Estate.

It was a wonderful walk. I’m glad we did it. I’m no better at reading maps today, but gratefully we have Google maps that tell us where we are going.ย  Any embarrassment I feel from that day is in my head alone. No one else cares! It was Eleanor Roosevelt who is credited with this quote,

“You wouldnโ€™t worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do.โ€

This is the walk we did today.

We came home, had breakfast and a cappuccino and then collapsed in a heap. I even had a solid midday sleep where I was absolutely dead to the world. It was wonderful.

We were refreshed enough to pop in at John and Avril’s to pick up a book they are lending us on Ephesus. Their garden is looking absolutely amazing. What a lovely retreat.

It’s a beautiful evening with not a breath of wind and the setting sun momentarily swished pink across the sea

A good long weekend.

Psalm 66:5
Come and see what God has done, how awesome His works in man’s behalf

It’s not about now – we are only passing through.

Keep the smile going.

God bless you.

In His Grip,

Gran xx ๐Ÿ™‚

 

 

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Mike and Holly Arrived

Saturday

Dear Elsie

Today was the day Julian’s friends Mike and Holly arrived for 8 nights. Mike is originally from Durban. Holly is American. They live in Florida.

They came in the afternoon and I went to the airport to collect them. We stopped for some shopping on the way home and then went to Bluewater Cafe at Imhoff for dinner.

When rain was threatened, we went inside and had dinner under cover. Another lovely meal.

Home now and there is a party going on across the road, so there are cars e.v.e.r.y.w.h.e.r.e. No noise, just no parking. The neighbours have been informed that all the cars that are on our kerb, off our kerb, around our kerb are not all ours. Hopefully, no rude notes will be written!

Meanwhile, up in Johannesburg, David and Anna are enjoying themselves. Breakfast…

Out and about…

This photo below was a short while ago. A picture of domesticity in the Naude household.

This morning, guests left and I did some cleaning, while Mike went and test drove more cars! I had a peaceful time before heading for the airport. Just a piece of useless trivia -it’s the only night there has ever been where there are 3 Mikes on the property. Mike and Holly, Mike and me and there is an Airbnb guest called Mike, who leaves tomorrow.

Luke 5:16
Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed.

It’s not about now – we are only passing through.

Keep the smile going.

God bless you.

In His Grip,

Gran xx ๐Ÿ™‚

 

 

 

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The Quietest Day

Friday

Dear Elsie

Today is Human Rights Day and it was the quietest day. We woke up and had some time with your Mom before we hugged her goodbye and she headed home to you Elsie.ย  While she drove away, we walked down to the beach on what has been a very balmy and warm day. It’s what I call a fancourt slate kind of day.

One of the advantages of going to the beach a little later than usual is the shark net was in place. The water is getting cooler. Somebody suggested it was 16. Certainly refreshing. I still got in a good swim ofย  33 minutes. We came home (starving) and had breakfast. I did some work. At 12 noon the weekend guests arrived. I have managed to stay on top of my work this week, so after a few hours of work,ย  I had a midday snooze which was really good.

I found a feather on the balcony and at first sniff Raiku went wild, but he soon realised there wasn’t a bird attached to it.

Sweet kitty. When Stacey was here, she announced that cats do better in pairs and that it is a good idea for Raiku to get a kitten! Mike said he felt ganged up against. Stacey assured him I hadn’t told her to say this and it was her own research. I had a good little laugh to myself. When we get back from our trip, I think I shall be looking out for a very friendly kitten. I keep getting recommended them on Instagram & there seems to be no shortage.

A good end to the working week.

Solomon not mincing his words…

Proverbs 11:22
Like a gold ring in a pig’s snout is a beautiful woman who shows no discretion.

It’s not about now – we are only passing through.

Keep the smile going.

God bless you.

In His Grip,

Gran xx ๐Ÿ™‚

 

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Look Who Is Here

Thursday

Dear Elsie

Look who is here! Your MOM!

Today was the day Stacey came to Cape Town to get her British citizenship letter, so now she can apply for her British passport. It’s been a long complicated journey to this point, but the hard work is over.ย  It’s great having Stacey here, even if it is just for one night. The 4 of us were together on our own for the first time in a while.

It’s 34 years sinceย  this one…

Meanwhile, Anna and David are off to Jo’burg. Mike took them to the airport while Stacey and I caught up.

I’m going to get this posted, so I can have some more Stacey time.

Luke 4:22
All spoke well of Him and were amazed at the gracious words that came from His lips.

It’s not about now – we are only passing through.

Keep the smile going.

God bless you.

In His Grip,

Gran xx ๐Ÿ™‚

 

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Bone Density Report

Wednesday

Dear Elsie

Today I got my bone density report and your Mom sent me your academic assessment results – you got 91% for Afrikaans, 92% for English, 98% for maths and 84% for life skills. You’re such a star! Well done!

While you are a superstar, my report wasn’t as good.

I needed my report to get approval from medical aid for full payment of the chronic medication so it doesn’t come out of our MA savings. I was really interested in what it had to say. Firstly these are the ranges for T-Scores for bone density…

This is what I have…

It will be good to keep so I can compare when I go for a follow up Bone Density Scan next March to see if the Boniva is working. One of the things about Osteoporosis is you can’t feel it. My lower back, where the issue is, feels fine. It’s a silent disease. By the time you have symptoms, it will be much worse. I’m glad I caught it early and I’m also happy my hips aren’t looking too bad.

We went to the beach this morning. It was busy. There were loads of people on this windless day. It really was surprising. I worked a full day on my return & that’s the day done.

Tomorrow David and Anna flight to Jo’burg to visit the family up there, while Stacey arrives here for a night. It will be marvellous to see her.

Psalm 62:1
My soul finds rest in God alone

It’s not about now – we are only passing through.

Keep the smile going.

God bless you.

In His Grip,

Gran xx ๐Ÿ™‚

 

 

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The 3 ‘Be’s of Luke 3

Tuesday

Dear Elsie

Today was the day we got to go to the beach for the first time in a few days. But first sunrise has got later – this is 6.53am

The water was slightly cooler than usual. Invigorating to say the least. We came home via the shops as we had no milk.

I started work, while Mike left no stone unturned in his thoughts of buying a new car. He ended up going through to the dealership again for a second look. He came away empty-handed, not 100% sure, with a few misgivings about the dealership and the offer of warranty and if it really is legit. I think he is all motored out …for now.

We took a photo from the balcony. I told Mike I wanted a self-portrait, so he said, ‘let me go brush my hair’. He didn’t need to.

Julian has gone back to Johannesburg. David is having dinner with Anna, so we are are on our own this evening.

Today I’ve been pondering the 3 lessons from Luke 3.

There is this dialogue between John the Baptist and the crowd. John is imploring them to produce fruit in keeping with repentance. The crowd want to know what to do.

Three BE lessons to learn:

Be Generous. Verse 11, “The man with 2 tunics should share with him who has none, and the one who has food should do the same.”

The tax collectors wanted to know what they should be doing.

Be Honest. Verse 13, “Don’t collect any more than you are required.”

The soldiers also wanted to know what they should do.

Be Content .Verse 14 “Don’t extort money and don’t accuse people falsely – be content with your pay.”

Be content with your pay! That issue is as valid today as it was 2000 + years ago when those words were spoken. Daily, in my work, I have people coming to me wanting more!

Contentment is learned.

Those are the 3 ‘Be’s of Luke 3. Easy to remember.

It’s not about now – we are only passing through.

Keep the smile going.

God bless you.

In His Grip,

Gran xx ๐Ÿ™‚

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Last Night We Went Out For Dinner

Monday

Dear Elsie

Last night was an absolutely beautiful, breathless evening. We went to the Blue Water Cafe at Imhoff. No booking required. Sitting outside was lovely. The view quite spectacular.

I had the Chef’s Salad which came with Salmon. It was delicious.

During the course of the evening, one of us looked up. We didn’t realise we were sitting below several treehouses of note.

We were fortunate not be on the receiving end of anything.

David and I.

We had a lovely evening.

Today Mike and David went out to test-drive cars. Mike is thinking of replacing his, given his irritation with the automatic gearbox. Apart from that he absolutely LOVES his Ignis, except the clutch. With VAT going up, he’s thinking if he trades it in, he may as well do it before 1st May. I think they left at 10.15am and returned at 2pm. They were gone for that long! When I messaged, David said they were nearly home and sent this photo!

Good father and son time. Two cars were taken for a test drive with a refreshment and recovery time in between. We’ll see what transpires.

The other thing that happened today was the long standing bougainvillea that was on our outside wall got taken down. We will be redesigning our entrance and it had to go. It looks a bit bare & needs a coat of paint, but Mike has a plan…

Mike bought a battery operated chain saw that doesn’t make a huge racket. Courage absolutely loved it. He went mad and cut down all and every bit of overgrown shrubbery around the property. It’s now all piled up on kerb and will be collected tomorrow.

I’m soon to be summoned for a short walk. Let me go.

I’m in the Gospel of Luke now.

Luke 2:40
And the child grew and became strong; He was filled with wisdom, and the grace of God was upon Him.

It’s not about now – we are only passing through.

Keep the smile going.

God bless you.

In His Grip,

Gran xx ๐Ÿ™‚

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Larney French Toast Sunday

Sunday

Dear Elsie

Today dawned very overcast and cool. I looked out on the flat sea and saw a pod of dolphins just off shore. I rushed to get my camera. This is the problem….you can’t even see them! Those were dolphins I promise.

We decided to forego the beach but instead walked to Harbour Bay and had Julian and David join us for breakfast. I had the larney French toast. It’s really good.

We came home and one of the things I wanted to do is sort out the contents of my desk drawers. Mike was happy to help, so we got it all out, shredded a lot of paper, filed a bunch and put the bare minimum back. That’s one step closer to being organised. I found this photo! David aged 11.

I managed a snooze at lunchtime and then got 3 hours of work done. In the middle, the new guests arrived and have settled in.

The Bible is full of verses to cling to in times of trouble. Throughout my Bible I have little notes regarding David’s Long Covid. He still is not right, but is managing his energy levels better. Here’s one of those verses.

Psalms 59:16
I will sing of your strength, in the morning I will sing of your love; for you are my fortress, my refuge in times of trouble.

God never sleeps.

It’s not about now – we are only passing through.

Keep the smile going.

God bless you.

In His Grip,

Gran xx ๐Ÿ™‚

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First Boniva

Saturday

Dear Elsie

Today was the day I took my first Boniva pill. It’s important for me to make a note, because time has a way of passing very, very quickly and before I know it, I’ll be counting the years I’ve been on the stuff. While the active ingredient is ibandronic acid, the group of medicines is called bisphosphonates and the name of the pill is Boniva 150mg.ย  This is not one to play with. My cholesterol pill I took 10mg for the first month and then diligently cut it in half and have taken 5mg every day. I’ve cut back on half of the chemical and maintained a health cholesterol, but a cholesterol test can be done any time and is cheap. Bone density tests are R2300, so my next one will be next year to see if this is working. I’m not going to cut this pill in half. Anyway, I took the pill, following the instructions to the tee.

Pill taken, sat in my rocking chair and watched a video. An hour later, I made coffee and at at 7.30am we went to the beach. The water was laden with seaweed. Knee deep kelp had everyone chirping. I bobbed out to the barrel and swam in the murk. It was still a lovely swim, even though I left the water with a cozzie full of bits and pieces of ocean grass!

A main part of today – we cleaned. Thursday’s wind had caused a huge amount of dust and grime. Courage cleaned our windows yesterday. Today, we got out our new purchase and I cleaned about a cat’s worth of fur off the carpets. Mike selected this because it’s the quietest vacuum cleaner he could find.

Once that was done, I set the baby robotic Milex vacuum in motion. This is useful for cleaning under the bed.

I sat down at my computer to do this blog, when I heard a sound thatย  made me realise it may be going where it should not be going. I jumped up and headed outside…

I’ve always wondered if it would go over the edge if left alone. I hovered over it.

And then I video’ed it…

It didn’t even nearly go over, but I don’t think I’d leave it out there unattended.

We have the next guests arriving this evening and more tomorrow. Then we will be full again.ย  It’s been a beautiful day here…

Meanwhile, in Swellendam, it was also a lovely day.

A date of rest and contentment.

I learn a lot through Proverbs.

Proverbs 11:12
A man who lacks judgment derides his neighbour, but a man of understanding holds his tongue.

Oh Lord, teach me to hold my tongue.

It’s not about now – we are only passing through.

Keep the smile going.

God bless you.

In His Grip,

Gran xx ๐Ÿ™‚

 

 

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Out the Back and Up the Road

Friday

Dear Elsie

Today was the day the wind dropped a bit, but has picked up again this evening. Still, we got to have the doors wide open and Courage took advantage of a little less wind to wash our windows, so they are now nice and sparkly.

Courage has had a handlanger working with him and great progress has been made with the gabion baskets.

This was the start of the gabion basket project in November 2023.ย  It’s taken 16 months of Courage’s hard work to get to this stage. They are almost done

 

Staying in the garden, the porcupines have been particularly active. If we leave our courtyard gate open, they will come in. They emptied this pot…

A little succulent left behind.

We must remember to close the courtyard gate.

Up the road there has been a derelict house which was always a talking point of neighbours and walkers alike.

For many years it had a sign outside, saying it was a problem house. The sign is gone and it has been stripped and is being rebuilt. The builders have been terracing and a ton of bricks have been delivered.

It will be fun to watch it come to life.

Today I got my first pill. One small pill.

And a double spread of instructions.

It costs about R350.

And so that’s it for a productive week. Tomorrow, I’m hoping we get to swim.

Psalm 57:5
Be exalted, O God above the heavens; let Your glory be over all the earth.

It’s not about now – we are only passing through.

Keep the smile going.

God bless you.

In His Grip,

Gran xx ๐Ÿ™‚

 

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