I’m Not A Natural Housewife!

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It is true. I’m not a natural housewife. I’d far rather be out socialising; and doing stuff I like – like spending time outdoors – maybe walking up a mountain or on the beach – and writing and  reading. I’d far rather have coffee with a friend than clean the house. I’d far rather do the blog than clean the house. I can find myself wasting time on Facebook, instead of housework. Cleaning the house is so far down my list of priorities that I have to make a concerted effort to bump it up to the top to get it done. If I were at school and housework was ‘homework’, I would probably fail. There would be some form of penalty like ‘lines’. Did you ever get ‘lines?’  I did. Well, if I were the teacher and I was giving the poor, negligent housewife ‘lines,’  they would have to write 100 x (alternating) “if it is to be, it is up to me” and “just do it.”  (I’d also probably throw in some ‘it is what it is!’) When it comes to housework, those are a few of the things I mumble under my breath.

DishesThere are always going to be things we DON’T like doing. Eventually, even the things I love doing, could become a bit monotonous. I worked hard to try and prevent the Rise and Shine show from becoming monotonous. If it was monotonous for me, imagine what it was like for the listening audience?! I was always trying to be creative in thinking up new stuff. When I couldn’t think up anything more, my time was up! But you can’t walk away from  some responsibilities. Fortunately, housework is not a radio show and I don’t have 1000s of people waiting for me to do it. If I did, I guess I’d be a bit quicker about getting on with it. But there are some lessons I have learned when it comes to doing the mundane household chores that just have to be done.

1. The hardest part is the first 5 minutes. I just have to begin. Surprisingly, once I’ve taken that first step, I find myself regularly doing a lot more than I intended.

2. There is a great deal of satisfaction in getting my space clean and tidy. Clearing away clutter, throwing out stuff, getting rid of rubbish, putting things in their right place, altogether is very fulfilling. It’s freeing. In our bedroom, we have a table and two chairs. They are the collectors of clothes and clutter. It takes about 5 minutes to put everything that accumulates on them, away. For the rest of the day, I can enjoy order…

Table and chairs

3. It rubs off on others. I have discovered that as soon as I make the effort to really clean up and keep order, others follow suit. When the kitchen is left messy, other occupants of my home tend to not bother washing up anything they have used. They don’t need to. The kitchen is already a mess, so they just add what they have used to the mess. But, when the kitchen is sparkling, their dirty dishes stand out, so they wash them up! 😀 (Of course, this didn’t really apply to my children when they were younger! But it does apply to them now that they are adults!)

4. I feel in control. When my space is organised, I feel far more organised. Empowered.

Just do it!

Make a start, you’ll feel so glad you did!

Now here’s something interesting. It came from a blog I found online:

1 John 5:4

For whatever is born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world—our faith. 


Nike coined the phrase “just do it” and emphasized it with the swoosh that is displayed on their athletic shoes. But did you know that the word NIKE is actually a Biblical word? Nike is the Greek word used in 1 John 5:4 for victory. It is pronounced nee’-kay and is used only one time in the Bible and that is in this verse where it means conquest; the means of success; –victory. From the root word of Nike comes the word nikao which means to subdue; conquer, overcome, prevail, get the victory. It is through our faith that we learn to press through to the victory; to overcome and experience the conquest of success; to prevail until the battle is won and the victory is ours! Faith overcomes! ” 

(That came from here.)

Keep the smile going!

God bless you!

In His Grip,

Helga xx 🙂

Gratitude Pic…I was so glad I got to see what was so unusual about this picture. When you see it, you won’t be able to unsee it! Nothing to do with the cows in the background…(it’s probably photoshopped, but clever none the less)…

Cow pictureIt didn’t just jump out at me, as with some other people. I had to stare a while!

 

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